36 Buying yourself into something

Some questions to feel the difference:

Are you practicing self-pleasure as something you bring to the table—or because you want to deepen the experience you have with yourself (and also with another, it is always you who has the experience—or not, you who has the depth of the experience—or not)

Are you using what you are good at to sell what you really want to do? Or do you allow yourself to let stand what you really want to do on its own?

Do you bring facts to God why you deserve the thing you want? Or can you just ask for the thing you want?

Do you try to smuggle yourself into a club with features you know others love about you—or do you trust that you will be in if you are meant to be in?